| Your Seduction Style: The Natural |
 You don't really try to seduce people... it just seems to happen. Fun loving and free spirited, you bring out the inner child in people. You are spontaneous, sincere, and unpretentious - a hard combo to find! People drop their guard around you, and find themselves falling fast. |
Monday, February 28, 2005
Saturday, February 26, 2005
I am starting to feel I am like a human parasite...
My aunt was asking me whether I can shift to the study room as my bedroom. The flat will be undergoing some revamp in March, my 2 cousins will be sleeping in my room so I have to give up the room for them. So, there will major shifting to be done. At the same time, I wanted to get a wardrobe to hang my working clothes. I have been using the kiddy wardrobe for years and it is too small to hang my dresses, ended up most of them are crumpled. And I need to fix some curtains for the study room window, I hated so much when people peeped thru.
I have this feeling that my aunt is hoping me that I can get married soon, moving out of the house so there will be more space for my 2 cousins. Being boyfriendless & not planning to have one after my drastic past relationship, I feel it is impossible. I have this feeling of being "down-graded" to live in a smaller room and I have to buy new furniture to store my barang barang.
I've been giving my aunt $200 per month which my aunt has done alot for me already. I really can't expect her to do further more. I am in a dilemma whether to stay or to move to another place, which I have to fork out abt $300 per month for the rent, fix my own meals, wash my laundry and stuff.
Worst of all, I have no mood to study for a coming exam on Monday..!! So many things happening at a time....
Friday, February 25, 2005
Thursday, February 24, 2005
Believe it or not.. I have serious mood swings today..
These are the reasons:
1) My manager is leaving next month. She has tendered resignation on Monday.
2) I just bought a packet of fat burning pills from Fancl
3) "That period" of the month coming...
Just you wondering why you think my manager is leaving.... well, she has found her motive in life, her dream job to earn her millions... by the way, how many zeros are there in 1 million???
Every morning, I will feel very depressed while trying hard to buckle the buttons of my working pants. I keep feeling they are getting smaller everytime i put them to wash. Well, it is the other way round, I am getting "bigger".... Having to sit in the office all day resulted me in that state. I can't bear to see myself deteriorating everyday, so I decided to give a try on the artificial way of slimming. SLIMMING PILLS.... the last resort. Damn it, after trying, I felt easily agitated & emotional. I was even crying in the morning, dunno why...
Yup, I am sure that period of the month coming... that's why i am feeling so sian. Stupid PMS...
These are the reasons:
1) My manager is leaving next month. She has tendered resignation on Monday.
2) I just bought a packet of fat burning pills from Fancl
3) "That period" of the month coming...
Just you wondering why you think my manager is leaving.... well, she has found her motive in life, her dream job to earn her millions... by the way, how many zeros are there in 1 million???
Every morning, I will feel very depressed while trying hard to buckle the buttons of my working pants. I keep feeling they are getting smaller everytime i put them to wash. Well, it is the other way round, I am getting "bigger".... Having to sit in the office all day resulted me in that state. I can't bear to see myself deteriorating everyday, so I decided to give a try on the artificial way of slimming. SLIMMING PILLS.... the last resort. Damn it, after trying, I felt easily agitated & emotional. I was even crying in the morning, dunno why...
Yup, I am sure that period of the month coming... that's why i am feeling so sian. Stupid PMS...
Wednesday, February 23, 2005
Heard from Qing's blog, (I happened to miss that part too!!) that there is another scene in the movie Constantine after the credits. It showed that Constantine went to visit Chaz (the cabby driver) at his grave, put a lighter there & walked away. Then Chaz came alive and appeared to be half angel, half demon and flew away....
CONSTANTINE part 2.. rise of the half-breeds <--- pretty catchy title yah??
CONSTANTINE part 2.. rise of the half-breeds <--- pretty catchy title yah??
++ another 75 pts GIRL should know about GUY ++
taken from Chuan's blogspot. ;)
1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
3. If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a man's character, leave him alone.
4. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
5. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
6. Don't force an attraction.
7. Slower is better.
8. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
9. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
10 Have faith in God regarding your relationship, but don't let faith make you stupid. God does things decent and in order.
11. Don't settle.
12. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
13. If he keeps changing his mind about the relationship- -take that as a BIG sign that he is unstable. Do you really want to be with a man like that?.
14. Don't stay because you think "it will get better". You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
15. Honorable men take care of their business and aren't involved in a whole lot of mess.
16. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
17. There's only one 'reason' a man dumps you; he doesn't want you.
18. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different woman. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
19. You really do have to kiss a few frogs before finding the prince.
20. Always put yourself and your happiness first.
21. Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
22. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
23. Like from the show Sex and the City, if he doesn't call, he just isn't that interested.
24. Be honest and upfront.
25. Know when to cut the cord, don't be strung along.
26. Don't fall for the "I'm confused role". Remove yourself from the situation to let him figure things out (but don't wait for him, move on).
27. If you want to have a clue as to how he will treat you, watch how he treats the WOMEN in his family (not just mom).
28. There's more than physical abuse, there's emotional and mental abuse. If he causes any of them....flee.
29. You cannot change a man's behaviors. Change comes from within.
30. Don't let him place rules on you that he is not willing to follow himself -- double-standard. 31. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job.
32. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
33. Demand respect and if he can't give it, he can't have you!
34. Don't compete with other woman, but be aware that men are attracted to what they see.
35. If you think he is cheating, he probably is. Confront him right away and if you feel he's lying, let him go.
36. Actions speak louder than words.
37. Never let a man define who you are.
38. Never rely on a man for compliments, look to yourself for that.
39. Never borrow someone else's man.
40. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
41. Just because he says he loves you, doesn't mean that he won't hurt you and it doesn't mean that you are meant to be with him.
42. To use painful hard-won wisdom -- 'get it right' the next time.
43. Know that you deserve to be the number one person in the life of the. 1person in your life. 44. Love is a verb ...
45. Learn to give up your lifelong task of trying to make someone unavailable-available, someone ungiving-giving, and someone unloving-loving.
46. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
47. All men are NOT dogs.
48. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street.
49. If you don't love self...you can't love anyone else.
50. You cannot mend someone else's broken heart.
51. You need time to heal between relationships..... there is nothing cute about baggage..... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
52. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you.... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individualss..... look for someone complementary...not supplementary.
53. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.Right.
54. NEVER give more in a relationship than you are getting out of it.
55. Never become your man's "therapist".
56. When actions and words conflict, believe the actions. Respond to the actions.
57. A real healthy relationship requires two people. One person can end it - but it takes two to make it work.
58. Don't fall for the "I'm not the loving type".. when a man loves you there is nothing in this world (within reason) that he wouldn't do for you.
59. Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him he takes it for granted.
60. Give him his space...let him go out with his boys don't pressure him to spend time with you, You cant force a man to hang out with you.
61. If you wouldn't allow your daughter to be with him you shouldn't.
62. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
63. Never move into his mother's house.
64. Provide financially for yourself and don't depend on anyone.
65. Never co-sign for a man.
66. Never believe you have the perfect guy and he is so innocent.
67. Never spoil your man; let him spoil you.
68. Never let a man mess up your credit.
69. When it's time to let go; let go.
70. Good men should be treated like good men.
71. Don't play games.
72. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
73. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
74. Compatibility in terms of educational attainment, values, beliefs, personal and career goals, and socioeconomic status, are important.
75. Never date a guy who wears colored contacts.
taken from Chuan's blogspot. ;)
1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
3. If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a man's character, leave him alone.
4. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
5. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
6. Don't force an attraction.
7. Slower is better.
8. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
9. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
10 Have faith in God regarding your relationship, but don't let faith make you stupid. God does things decent and in order.
11. Don't settle.
12. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
13. If he keeps changing his mind about the relationship- -take that as a BIG sign that he is unstable. Do you really want to be with a man like that?.
14. Don't stay because you think "it will get better". You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
15. Honorable men take care of their business and aren't involved in a whole lot of mess.
16. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
17. There's only one 'reason' a man dumps you; he doesn't want you.
18. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different woman. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
19. You really do have to kiss a few frogs before finding the prince.
20. Always put yourself and your happiness first.
21. Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
22. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
23. Like from the show Sex and the City, if he doesn't call, he just isn't that interested.
24. Be honest and upfront.
25. Know when to cut the cord, don't be strung along.
26. Don't fall for the "I'm confused role". Remove yourself from the situation to let him figure things out (but don't wait for him, move on).
27. If you want to have a clue as to how he will treat you, watch how he treats the WOMEN in his family (not just mom).
28. There's more than physical abuse, there's emotional and mental abuse. If he causes any of them....flee.
29. You cannot change a man's behaviors. Change comes from within.
30. Don't let him place rules on you that he is not willing to follow himself -- double-standard. 31. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job.
32. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
33. Demand respect and if he can't give it, he can't have you!
34. Don't compete with other woman, but be aware that men are attracted to what they see.
35. If you think he is cheating, he probably is. Confront him right away and if you feel he's lying, let him go.
36. Actions speak louder than words.
37. Never let a man define who you are.
38. Never rely on a man for compliments, look to yourself for that.
39. Never borrow someone else's man.
40. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
41. Just because he says he loves you, doesn't mean that he won't hurt you and it doesn't mean that you are meant to be with him.
42. To use painful hard-won wisdom -- 'get it right' the next time.
43. Know that you deserve to be the number one person in the life of the. 1person in your life. 44. Love is a verb ...
45. Learn to give up your lifelong task of trying to make someone unavailable-available, someone ungiving-giving, and someone unloving-loving.
46. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
47. All men are NOT dogs.
48. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street.
49. If you don't love self...you can't love anyone else.
50. You cannot mend someone else's broken heart.
51. You need time to heal between relationships..... there is nothing cute about baggage..... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
52. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you.... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individualss..... look for someone complementary...not supplementary.
53. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.Right.
54. NEVER give more in a relationship than you are getting out of it.
55. Never become your man's "therapist".
56. When actions and words conflict, believe the actions. Respond to the actions.
57. A real healthy relationship requires two people. One person can end it - but it takes two to make it work.
58. Don't fall for the "I'm not the loving type".. when a man loves you there is nothing in this world (within reason) that he wouldn't do for you.
59. Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him he takes it for granted.
60. Give him his space...let him go out with his boys don't pressure him to spend time with you, You cant force a man to hang out with you.
61. If you wouldn't allow your daughter to be with him you shouldn't.
62. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
63. Never move into his mother's house.
64. Provide financially for yourself and don't depend on anyone.
65. Never co-sign for a man.
66. Never believe you have the perfect guy and he is so innocent.
67. Never spoil your man; let him spoil you.
68. Never let a man mess up your credit.
69. When it's time to let go; let go.
70. Good men should be treated like good men.
71. Don't play games.
72. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
73. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
74. Compatibility in terms of educational attainment, values, beliefs, personal and career goals, and socioeconomic status, are important.
75. Never date a guy who wears colored contacts.
Tuesday, February 22, 2005
Saturday, February 19, 2005
I had an another chance to survive through this terrible module, Property Economics. The 'failures' were supposed to give a presentation of the questions given by Jessica (lecturer). I admit I din prepare much, as I am pretty tired, given only 1 day to prepare answers & slides. Mandy (my partner) a more lively gal helped to prepare most of the contents as I helped to print out the transparencies.
The 1st presentation went on well, the 1st group, Judy was splendid. Her partner presented in a confident manner, but he is quite 'tao' one, dun really like him much. Winsun's group, his 'friend' flew him areoplane, did not attend the lecture at all. Thus he has to present the answers alone. So glad that Mandy helped throughout the whole presentation, i was already half dead after the work & no energy to carry on...
Some of the course-mates asked some questions. Some of them... (ahem... I shall not mention names) are rather unhelpful and shoot us questions which we dun know how to answer... I still remember the evil smirk on their faces that night... Ms M, Ms A & another one.. which once I again I shall not mention names. Luckily, Terence saved our day in helping us to answer the questions, and not forgetting the nice Liyan.. the also very stylo gal who complimented on our presentation too.
Met up with Huifang on the next evening, we had dinner at Bugis and watched Constantine. She was still the lively, cheerful gal.. haha.. we all put on weight <-- Luckily I am not the only one!! During the dinner, she told me she was working in NCS, in Sunshine Plaza, veri near to my work place. She doesn't know the way to come to Bugis, and she sought help from her colleague to come to Bugis Junction to meet me. Still unattached, I asked her whether she attended any SDU gatherings. She told me she did, but they are rather unfruitful as guys who attended the gathering are only looking for gals looking demure, quiet or busty. They do not like gals who talk loudly. There are also alot of Single Desperate Unwanted guys waiting for their chances to get involved in a relationship.
Huifang also went for holiday in Spain, London & Belgium... hoho.... so GOOD!!! Wish i can go too... Yup, I'll be planning to go too, probably in a couple of years time.
Wednesday, February 16, 2005
i flunked the test (Property Economics)... guess i din study well enough for it. My memory is getting from bad to worse, I couldn't remember wat i studied also... Aiyah. Luckily, there is a make-up assignment, got to finish by tonite for tmr's presentation.
Been having steamboat for lunch these few days in office, hope the other tenants did not smell our tom yum soup... there are also vegetables, chicken, pork, all sorts of balls in this meal. Wah. I put on weight. There was also a CNY Lo Hei Dinner at Ah Yat Abalone Restaruant, which added more to my weight. Yeah.. the abalone was yummy haha... but not as big as my fist...
My grandma's admitted to Mount E again, fell down in the toilet. She should have asked the maid to help her in the first place. She looked ok when I see her in hospital, sleeping soundly. My aunt says she suffers from the old injury at her spine, there is a hairline crack. Got to stay for 2 more days for further investigation.
Drank some booze... feeling drowsy now...
Been having steamboat for lunch these few days in office, hope the other tenants did not smell our tom yum soup... there are also vegetables, chicken, pork, all sorts of balls in this meal. Wah. I put on weight. There was also a CNY Lo Hei Dinner at Ah Yat Abalone Restaruant, which added more to my weight. Yeah.. the abalone was yummy haha... but not as big as my fist...
My grandma's admitted to Mount E again, fell down in the toilet. She should have asked the maid to help her in the first place. She looked ok when I see her in hospital, sleeping soundly. My aunt says she suffers from the old injury at her spine, there is a hairline crack. Got to stay for 2 more days for further investigation.
Drank some booze... feeling drowsy now...
Tuesday, February 15, 2005
Someone sent me this email. Is it true? For you to find out then.
But rather interesting.
99 Secrets Girls Have To Know About Guys
1. Guys don't actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.
2. Guys hate flirts.
3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.
4. When a guy says he doesn't understand you, it simply means you're not thinking the way he is.
5. "Are you doing something?" or "Have you eaten already?" are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
7. When a guy really likes you, he'll disregard all your bad characteristics.
8. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.
9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl's attention.
10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.
11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them.
12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can't. And they sure have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking!
13. Guys cry!!!
14. Don't provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.
15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.
16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.
17. When you touch a guy's heart, there's no turning back.
18. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...never mind!" would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.
19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.
20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like. 21. When a guy makes a prolonged "umm" or makes any excuses when you're asking him to do you a favour, he's actually saying that he doesn't like you and he can't lay down the card for you.
22. When a girl says "no", a guy hears it as "try again tomorrow."
23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.
24. Guys hate gays!
25. Guys love their moms.
26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.
27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn't mean that the guy likes her.
28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.
29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.
30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.
31. Like Eve, girls are guys âEUR(tm) weaknesses.
32. Guys are very open about themselves.
33. It's good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don't let him wait that long.
34. No guy is bad when he is courting
35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.
36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they're not that much pretty.
37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.
39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.
41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.
42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.
43. Guys virtually brag about anything.
44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.
45. Guys think too much.
46. Guys' fantasies are unlimited.
47. Girls' height doesn't really matter to a guy but her weight does!
48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!!
49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.
50. it’s not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they've been together for 3 years or more.
51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.
52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be matured and grow up.
53. When an un-likeable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.
54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.
55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.
56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he's sweating. You'll probably see that he is nervous.
57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.
58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me"
59. Guys don't really have final decisions.
60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.
61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him.
62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.
63. Guys believe that there's no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.
64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.
65. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.
66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.
67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.
68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.
69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!
70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
71. A guy's friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.
72. Don't be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.
73. Don't be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you'll be surprised.
74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.
75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.
76. Guys don't comprehend the statement "Get lost" too well.
77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.
78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.
79. Guys don't care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.
80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they'll realize they're wrong.
81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He's just too stubborn to deal with it.
82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.
83. Guys' weakest point is at the knee.
84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.
85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.
86. When a guy looks at you, either he's amazed of you or he's criticizing you.
87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.
88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.
89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you're with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.
90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!
92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.
93. When a guy says he can't sleep if he doesn't hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.
94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.
95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.
96. Girls are allowed to touch boys' things. Not their hair!
97. If a guy says you're beautiful, that guy likes you.
98. Guys hate girls who overreact.
99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.
Nobody's perfect especially myself...
But rather interesting.
99 Secrets Girls Have To Know About Guys
1. Guys don't actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.
2. Guys hate flirts.
3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.
4. When a guy says he doesn't understand you, it simply means you're not thinking the way he is.
5. "Are you doing something?" or "Have you eaten already?" are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
7. When a guy really likes you, he'll disregard all your bad characteristics.
8. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.
9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl's attention.
10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.
11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them.
12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can't. And they sure have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking!
13. Guys cry!!!
14. Don't provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.
15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.
16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.
17. When you touch a guy's heart, there's no turning back.
18. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...never mind!" would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.
19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.
20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like. 21. When a guy makes a prolonged "umm" or makes any excuses when you're asking him to do you a favour, he's actually saying that he doesn't like you and he can't lay down the card for you.
22. When a girl says "no", a guy hears it as "try again tomorrow."
23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.
24. Guys hate gays!
25. Guys love their moms.
26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.
27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn't mean that the guy likes her.
28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.
29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.
30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.
31. Like Eve, girls are guys âEUR(tm) weaknesses.
32. Guys are very open about themselves.
33. It's good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don't let him wait that long.
34. No guy is bad when he is courting
35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.
36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they're not that much pretty.
37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.
39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.
41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.
42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.
43. Guys virtually brag about anything.
44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.
45. Guys think too much.
46. Guys' fantasies are unlimited.
47. Girls' height doesn't really matter to a guy but her weight does!
48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!!
49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.
50. it’s not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they've been together for 3 years or more.
51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.
52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be matured and grow up.
53. When an un-likeable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.
54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.
55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.
56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he's sweating. You'll probably see that he is nervous.
57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.
58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me"
59. Guys don't really have final decisions.
60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.
61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him.
62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.
63. Guys believe that there's no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.
64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.
65. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.
66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.
67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.
68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.
69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!
70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
71. A guy's friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.
72. Don't be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.
73. Don't be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you'll be surprised.
74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.
75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.
76. Guys don't comprehend the statement "Get lost" too well.
77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.
78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.
79. Guys don't care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.
80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they'll realize they're wrong.
81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He's just too stubborn to deal with it.
82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.
83. Guys' weakest point is at the knee.
84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.
85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.
86. When a guy looks at you, either he's amazed of you or he's criticizing you.
87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.
88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.
89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you're with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.
90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!
92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.
93. When a guy says he can't sleep if he doesn't hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.
94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.
95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.
96. Girls are allowed to touch boys' things. Not their hair!
97. If a guy says you're beautiful, that guy likes you.
98. Guys hate girls who overreact.
99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.
Nobody's perfect especially myself...
Monday, February 14, 2005
i am telling myself repeatedly:" You dun have to hate the person who doesn't love you... "
BULLSHIT!! All Bullshit!! I am blinded!! Who the hell is this guy!!?? This guy doesn't deserve anything... he dun worth a shit!! Damn it!! I am so pissed!!
I am acting like a kid now.. maybe it is better bec kids tend to forget sad moments easily!!!!
hmm... ok.. cooled down, trying to forget the earlier...
JX is rite. This guy is not prepared to let anyone change his life of wat he is enjoying now. He will not change & never change. So pointless to keep him.
i woke up already, by a splash from a bucket of cold water... Brrggh.. it's cold.
BULLSHIT!! All Bullshit!! I am blinded!! Who the hell is this guy!!?? This guy doesn't deserve anything... he dun worth a shit!! Damn it!! I am so pissed!!
I am acting like a kid now.. maybe it is better bec kids tend to forget sad moments easily!!!!
hmm... ok.. cooled down, trying to forget the earlier...
JX is rite. This guy is not prepared to let anyone change his life of wat he is enjoying now. He will not change & never change. So pointless to keep him.
i woke up already, by a splash from a bucket of cold water... Brrggh.. it's cold.
the smses again...
moon: how come you have msn you never online? strange...
SL: cos i didn't use the comp today.
moon: Ha ha... ok. :D sorry for disturbing you and asking you to join forums or anything... happy Vday. ciaos.
SL: Happy V day to you too =) i'll see you online some time then. good night.
the next day...
moon: You want to watch movie tonight at around 730pm?
moon: resent bec no reply from a loghead: You want to watch movie tonight at around 730pm?
SL: Sorry i can't... i have a dental appt this afternoon to remove wisdom tooth.
moon: Talk about wisdom tooth.. i din have really. is it true that every adult should have? strange... maybe i dun have wisdom.
few hours later...
SL: I have no idea really =)
moon: hmm.. teach you one method of talking to a humourous person like me.. when i asked a stupid question.. sometimes i need a stupid answer! of course i know wisdom tooth not associated with wisdom... aiyoh. anyway i dun have wisdom tooth probably i have healthy teeth! he he...
moon:poor thing.. remove tooth painful ya... get well soon...
SL: Okay, stupid answer for a stupid question. understood
moon:hmm... are you angry? bec no smilies from u. :( tooth too painful? dun cry...
SL: No lah.. ha ha.. but tooth's really painful
moon: must eat porridge these few days rite? poor boy. imagine you will be drinking the blood from the wound everytime you drink water.. hope you will feel better after today. got take leave boh? My sis used to take leave after her tooth extraction.
SL: got 5 day mc
moon: Good..! i also hope i can have tooth extraction and stay at home and slag! wah ha ha! You taken your dinner?
SL: too painful to eat. cannot swallow. drink cereal only =)
moon: think you will lose another 2 kilos drinking cereals.. all along you said you wan to put on weight.. ha ha
moon: you wanna chat online?
SL: No thanks, sleeping soon at 10pm
moon: wh.. you are an early bird
moon: so sad... can't even talk rot to you online... :(
SL: I'm sure you got other friends to chat with =)
moon: hmm.. that's very wrong of you to think of it it this way... >:(
SL: Huh? why?
moon: bec i treated you as a very close 'friend'! can't you see that! i do not chat with you to kill time or anything... >:( you blur sotong!
SL: What do you mean by the quotes?
moon: 'friend' means.... you dun make me so embarrassed la *_*
SL: I am sorry but i do't see you as anything other than a normal friend & don't expect it to change...
moon:OK. that is a frank answer from you and i appreciated that really.
SL: ok.. i am sleeping soon.. good night..
moon: good night
my last reply was : pls forget everything I've said. I was drunk. Sorry & good bye.
i guess this will be the last time i am going to sms him.... end of story
moon: how come you have msn you never online? strange...
SL: cos i didn't use the comp today.
moon: Ha ha... ok. :D sorry for disturbing you and asking you to join forums or anything... happy Vday. ciaos.
SL: Happy V day to you too =) i'll see you online some time then. good night.
the next day...
moon: You want to watch movie tonight at around 730pm?
moon: resent bec no reply from a loghead: You want to watch movie tonight at around 730pm?
SL: Sorry i can't... i have a dental appt this afternoon to remove wisdom tooth.
moon: Talk about wisdom tooth.. i din have really. is it true that every adult should have? strange... maybe i dun have wisdom.
few hours later...
SL: I have no idea really =)
moon: hmm.. teach you one method of talking to a humourous person like me.. when i asked a stupid question.. sometimes i need a stupid answer! of course i know wisdom tooth not associated with wisdom... aiyoh. anyway i dun have wisdom tooth probably i have healthy teeth! he he...
moon:poor thing.. remove tooth painful ya... get well soon...
SL: Okay, stupid answer for a stupid question. understood
moon:hmm... are you angry? bec no smilies from u. :( tooth too painful? dun cry...
SL: No lah.. ha ha.. but tooth's really painful
moon: must eat porridge these few days rite? poor boy. imagine you will be drinking the blood from the wound everytime you drink water.. hope you will feel better after today. got take leave boh? My sis used to take leave after her tooth extraction.
SL: got 5 day mc
moon: Good..! i also hope i can have tooth extraction and stay at home and slag! wah ha ha! You taken your dinner?
SL: too painful to eat. cannot swallow. drink cereal only =)
moon: think you will lose another 2 kilos drinking cereals.. all along you said you wan to put on weight.. ha ha
moon: you wanna chat online?
SL: No thanks, sleeping soon at 10pm
moon: wh.. you are an early bird
moon: so sad... can't even talk rot to you online... :(
SL: I'm sure you got other friends to chat with =)
moon: hmm.. that's very wrong of you to think of it it this way... >:(
SL: Huh? why?
moon: bec i treated you as a very close 'friend'! can't you see that! i do not chat with you to kill time or anything... >:( you blur sotong!
SL: What do you mean by the quotes?
moon: 'friend' means.... you dun make me so embarrassed la *_*
SL: I am sorry but i do't see you as anything other than a normal friend & don't expect it to change...
moon:OK. that is a frank answer from you and i appreciated that really.
SL: ok.. i am sleeping soon.. good night..
moon: good night
my last reply was : pls forget everything I've said. I was drunk. Sorry & good bye.
i guess this will be the last time i am going to sms him.... end of story
THIS SONG WAS ORIGINALLY BY ERIC CARMEN, CELINE DION THEN SANG A VERSION OF IT. THIS SONG WAS LAST SEEN DURING THE BRIDGET JONES MOVIE, WHERE BRIDGET WAS 'SINGING' THIS SONG, DOING A LIP-SYNCHRONISING VERSION. ALTHOUGH IT IS HILARIOUS (THE WAY SHE SANG).. I FELT LONELY TOO SOMETIMES.... I AM STARTING TO FEEL I AM LIKE BRIDGET...
When I was young
I never needed anyone
And makin’ love was just for fun
Those days are gone
Livin’ alone
I think of all the friends I’ve known
But when I dial the telephone
Nobody’s home
All by myself
Don’t wanna be
All by myself anymore
All by myself
Don’t wanna live
All by myself anymore
Hard to be sure
Some times I feel so insecure
And love so distant and obscure
Remains the cure
All by myself
Don’t wanna be
All by myself anymore
All by myself
Don’t wanna live
All by myself anymore
FELT LIKE SINGING THIS SONG LOUD DURING KTV.... WAHHHHH!!!
When I was young
I never needed anyone
And makin’ love was just for fun
Those days are gone
Livin’ alone
I think of all the friends I’ve known
But when I dial the telephone
Nobody’s home
All by myself
Don’t wanna be
All by myself anymore
All by myself
Don’t wanna live
All by myself anymore
Hard to be sure
Some times I feel so insecure
And love so distant and obscure
Remains the cure
All by myself
Don’t wanna be
All by myself anymore
All by myself
Don’t wanna live
All by myself anymore
FELT LIKE SINGING THIS SONG LOUD DURING KTV.... WAHHHHH!!!
Friday, February 11, 2005
After a long long time, I finally met up with SL. He still looked the same, except he has grown a little thinner than before. He told me that he just went back to camp this morning for training and came out during this time for lunch and needs to go back around 4pm for training again...
Hmm.. so much training..
I teased abt his hair, bec it really looked like a chicken nest. He said he have not had a haircut eversince the 1 month training in New Zealand. He complained that he spent abt 300++ there... (such expenditure...??) He also visited the casino in New Zealand, but did not gamble there, only take a look.
" Frankly speaking, I've never been to a casino, not even Genting." I told him.
"Me too... bec I was underaged then.." he exclaimed.
We stopped at Olio Dome's cafe at Suntec for lunch. (his treat) We talked abt alot of things, his past relationships, his recent crush on an attached gal. However, I talked veri little on my past relationships when he asked. I even asked him whether he kept any pics of the girls he mentioned. He honestly owned up that he kept Fann Wong's photo inside his wallet.. (I thought only small boys do that..?) He said that Fann's hairstyle reminds him of the girl he had a crush on but she was now away in Sweden, and he is giving up courting her...
After the lunch, we moved off to Carefour, I need to help my auntie to search for a new bookself. Realising that it is pretty hard to communicate further when walking around, I asked SL whether he wants to stop by at a cafe for some coffee.. He looked extremely tired.. I guess it was the morning training. We stopped at Citylink Delifrance. Sipping our coffees and looking outside at the patrons walking past, we started to talk some stupid stuff like which gal pretty lah... which guy good-looking la. (Sad to say, I din see any good-looking guys in Citylink) He din really look at me and comment on my dressing, anyway I din really dress up, just a light make-up. Then suddenly he popped me a question..
"How many children you wanna to have next time....?"
I was like huh?? Why suddenly asked me this very weird question...
"I never thought of it, bec it never occurred in my mind." I answered. "Then u?"
"I think of having 2-3 kids.." he said.
I pointed to a fat ang moh lady outside and said," Then yr future wife will become like this after birth loh.. when u wrap around her, u can't find her waist.."
"Oh yah hoh... but that's fine.." he repiled with a smile.
I was chuckling all the way when chating with him. He was saying that he did went out with some of the gals, but din work out. He said that he just couldn't clique with them. There was even a 17 year old girl who pursued him (during his tuitioning). He also said that he wants to look for someone younger than him by 2 years. ( I am older than him, btw)
So after the cafe session, I asked, " When can I see u again?"
He said, " Wah.. so fast u wanna book appointment already?"
He told me perhaps after a few months, as friends do not always need to meet to stay close.
(I really dun understand him....)
We went on our own separate ways as he needed to rush back to camp. Heard that he is involved in the National Day parade. I stopped by HMV as I listened to Jay Chou's music while picking up the pieces inside me...
Tuesday, February 08, 2005
oh no... what happened... my side bar becomes at the bottom of the page & where are my previous comments????
What happened to my blog!!! A nasty bug attack!!
Nah.... I've changed back into a safer template with less bugs... I guess I am terrible in cut & paste templates. They tend to screw things up too!! All my links disappeared, I have to retype them back again!
What happened to my blog!!! A nasty bug attack!!
Nah.... I've changed back into a safer template with less bugs... I guess I am terrible in cut & paste templates. They tend to screw things up too!! All my links disappeared, I have to retype them back again!
Some smses....
moon: "Do you have MSN?"
SL: "Nope."
moon:" OK.. Do you have Win XP?"
SL:" Is your PC spolit?"
moon:" PC spoil...? oh no, that's not the reason why i call you to find out from you. Honestly speaking.. it's kind of disappointing to know that the date is postponed.. sorry for being so frank here. hope you dun mind. But i know you have your own difficulties. "
SL:" I know that. it's just a casual question. sorry about the postponement. not bluffing you bec I am too tired or wat, but i was informed by a last min call just now to go back to camp at six p.m. for a meeting and i dun think it's good to make you wait when i dun know what time it'll end."
moon:" Dun feel so apologetic... I am just too frank sometimes. I hope I have not offended you. :) Well, see u. Hope it is not another few more years I see you again... joking.."
SL:"No you haven't. =) I'll call you again soon to meet up. cheers"
..................................................................................................................
He din get wat I mean.... I am NOT going to sms him again.... >: (
moon: "Do you have MSN?"
SL: "Nope."
moon:" OK.. Do you have Win XP?"
SL:" Is your PC spolit?"
moon:" PC spoil...? oh no, that's not the reason why i call you to find out from you. Honestly speaking.. it's kind of disappointing to know that the date is postponed.. sorry for being so frank here. hope you dun mind. But i know you have your own difficulties. "
SL:" I know that. it's just a casual question. sorry about the postponement. not bluffing you bec I am too tired or wat, but i was informed by a last min call just now to go back to camp at six p.m. for a meeting and i dun think it's good to make you wait when i dun know what time it'll end."
moon:" Dun feel so apologetic... I am just too frank sometimes. I hope I have not offended you. :) Well, see u. Hope it is not another few more years I see you again... joking.."
SL:"No you haven't. =) I'll call you again soon to meet up. cheers"
..................................................................................................................
He din get wat I mean.... I am NOT going to sms him again.... >: (
Monday, February 07, 2005
Howl's Moving Castle Synopsis
Based on Howl's Moving Castle by Diana Wynne Jones. Howl's Moving Castle follows the story of young Sophie Hatter, a bookworm, the eldest of three daughters, a girl doomed to an uninteresting life as a hat maker. Sophie resigns herself to her boring fate, but fate has other plans for her. Cursed by the Witch of the Waste with the body of a 90-year-old woman, she finds her way to the moving castle inhabited by the wizard Howl, said by all to eat the souls of young girls.
Howl has been cursed by the Witch as well, and is seeking the love of young girl to help him break the curse. The book has enchanted readers of all ages for nearly 20 years, and the film was released on November 20, 2004 in Toho theaters across Japan (see the FAQ for other release dates).
The screenplay for the film was written by Hayao Miyazaki, who also directed the film. Katsuya KONDOU (Kiki's Delivery Service) was the Animation Director. Mamoru Hosoda had been selected to direct the film but abruptly left the project. Miyazaki then took up the director's role.
Weiye feedback to me it's weird lo... Wanlin also says the animation is weird. :0
How weird can animation be...?
Based on Howl's Moving Castle by Diana Wynne Jones. Howl's Moving Castle follows the story of young Sophie Hatter, a bookworm, the eldest of three daughters, a girl doomed to an uninteresting life as a hat maker. Sophie resigns herself to her boring fate, but fate has other plans for her. Cursed by the Witch of the Waste with the body of a 90-year-old woman, she finds her way to the moving castle inhabited by the wizard Howl, said by all to eat the souls of young girls.
Howl has been cursed by the Witch as well, and is seeking the love of young girl to help him break the curse. The book has enchanted readers of all ages for nearly 20 years, and the film was released on November 20, 2004 in Toho theaters across Japan (see the FAQ for other release dates).
The screenplay for the film was written by Hayao Miyazaki, who also directed the film. Katsuya KONDOU (Kiki's Delivery Service) was the Animation Director. Mamoru Hosoda had been selected to direct the film but abruptly left the project. Miyazaki then took up the director's role.
Weiye feedback to me it's weird lo... Wanlin also says the animation is weird. :0
How weird can animation be...?
I truly dislike guys who lack the eagerness to do things...
The first person is my brother..
The second person is Simon Lee...
The first person is my brother..
The second person is Simon Lee...
He tell me (last min) he wont be seeing me today, cos of a meeting at 6pm.
Also not giving me the eagerness & assurance to proceed with our 'date'...
Hmm... this is not the first time already. So in order not to let this spoil my chinese new year mood...
....I decided to erase him from my mind..from this veri minute.
Saturday, February 05, 2005
Friday, February 04, 2005
There is 1 time where I heard 2 guys talking to each other:-
"Pretty gals often stick to ugly guys.. & ugly gals often get the good looking guys"
When I heard this, I giggled (silently). However I felt it is true in certain extent. Gals look for "common-looking" guys because of a sense of security. Good looking gals often prefer plain janes as they wants someone to cook, sew and take care of the house.
He is not handsome, rather average-looking. He has this very common small eyes & face where you find in the streets. I can't say that he is the perfect "bf" for me (anyway, he is not!!) , but he appears to be quite a stable guy. He works for the Army, hardly spends his money & stays at home after work... So i presume he must be a very boring guy. He does not have a gf, BUT he has pretty good testimonial from girls in Friendster!..."Grab him fast before he is gone!!"...
Sometimes when you encountered a few broken relationships before, you tend to be tired of having them again. But He is the one that I like to find out from him more. Strangely, my heart was beating quite fast when talking to him... :) I just wonder how he look now. We r meeting up on Monday, I hope I can still recognise him.
"Pretty gals often stick to ugly guys.. & ugly gals often get the good looking guys"
When I heard this, I giggled (silently). However I felt it is true in certain extent. Gals look for "common-looking" guys because of a sense of security. Good looking gals often prefer plain janes as they wants someone to cook, sew and take care of the house.
He is not handsome, rather average-looking. He has this very common small eyes & face where you find in the streets. I can't say that he is the perfect "bf" for me (anyway, he is not!!) , but he appears to be quite a stable guy. He works for the Army, hardly spends his money & stays at home after work... So i presume he must be a very boring guy. He does not have a gf, BUT he has pretty good testimonial from girls in Friendster!..."Grab him fast before he is gone!!"...
Sometimes when you encountered a few broken relationships before, you tend to be tired of having them again. But He is the one that I like to find out from him more. Strangely, my heart was beating quite fast when talking to him... :) I just wonder how he look now. We r meeting up on Monday, I hope I can still recognise him.
Wednesday, February 02, 2005
i tried smsing to him.. think he should be back home already. He replied few secs later... (woot!!)
So... I asked him "Hi, are u back home already?"
He replied"Yup, I tried calling you just now, but your hp wasn't on"
(My handphone low batt mah....)
I replied," Oh sorry.... I call you now?"
He said"I am sleeping soon, jet lag? <--wat does this mean?
Can I call you tmr?"
.......................................
Will he call? Hmm.... think I am busy tmr, got lotz of meetings.
So... I asked him "Hi, are u back home already?"
He replied"Yup, I tried calling you just now, but your hp wasn't on"
(My handphone low batt mah....)
I replied," Oh sorry.... I call you now?"
He said"I am sleeping soon, jet lag? <--wat does this mean?
Can I call you tmr?"
.......................................
Will he call? Hmm.... think I am busy tmr, got lotz of meetings.
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